Alright people..

whitneysavageau
Jun 2, 2019
4 min read

it's savage sunday my dudes

.. which means its time for my post to rant about all things i rant about. if you're still reading these whatsup, how ya doin? if you're new, glad to have ya. and if you left, well.. doesn't matter, you're gone.

men, women, kids, teens, adults, parents. everyone. we need to stop being complete shits to people. now this is a pretty big rant, but man this has been weighing on me awhile and when i started this post a long while ago .. it was because i was tired of being treated like shit by men, who think they're better than me, who think they can treat me like shit just because i wasn't interested in them.. pretty messed up anyone should ever feel like that, but ya can't control rude ass people.

this happens, and it happens often and i would bet good money that it happens every day - to a lot of people regardless of who you are.

Just because someone is not interested in you. DOES NOT. and i repeat, DOES. NOT. give you the right to treat them like shit. it does not give you the right to put them down, to start to tear down their confidence, to make them feel like there is something wrong with them just because they don't want you or aren't interested.

sure everyone is entitled to their options, and sure everyone is allowed to say what they want when they want because that's just how it works.. that's just life, you can't control anyone or what anyone says.. no matter how badly you might want too.

but making someone feel like complete shit, just because they're not interested in you is kinda just morally fucked up in my opinion. (and probably a lot of people feel the same)

most of the time, i do not respond to people like this. but when i did, i was in this hostile mood. (yes i know, not healthy, but it happens okay.) he caught me at a bad time - which happens to everyone .. we all have a breaking point when we put up with the same annoying shit all the time. i try to be as mature as possible even when dealing with people who think it's okay to make me feel like complete shit for not wanting to exert my energy into something i'm not even interested in.

i was told:

"you females really such in this generation"

"you're not even that hot so quit acting like it"

"you're just ignorant, ya don't get very far with that attitude in life."

now.. the responses i wanted to make to that, were going to be just as cruel and rude .. well honestly probably more rude than what he said to me. but i refrained. i should have just ignored it all in general and not given him more attention to say disrespectful things to me .. but once i felt my confidence start to decline i got more aggressive [and that's not a cute fuckin look].

we know i'm a very forward person, hence "thee savage life" .. [see what i did there😜] now this isn't about what i said to this person who means nothing in my life.. but what i hate is that sometimes things like that get to me. when you hear things so much .. you start to think it about yourself. you doubt yourself. and that's not okay.

no one should ever start to question their own confidence that they have worked so hard to build up.

you should never make someone doubt themselves just because they are not interested.

if someones not interested in you ... WALK AWAY. you can't force people to like you, or fall in love with you, or fucking sleep with you. that's not how this works. (and if you are forcing people into relationships and forcing people to do literally anything - you should really figure that out because i'm sure you wouldn't want to feel like that).

if someone doesn't want to talk to you. RESPECT THAT. don't sit and call them names or tell them that they're "not hot enough to act like that" so what? if you're hot you can be a complete dick to whoever you want? again. fucked up. and again - figure that out on why you're being so damn rude .. or just go back under your bridge and be a troll away from everyone else.

so basically the gist of this whole rant ... quit being a dick if you are.

just because someone doesn't want to talk to you or be around you, or start something with you. respect that and move the hell on. .. you'll find someone new too. leave them alone.

as always, thanks for reading! leave a comment or tell me how you're feeling or even what you ate today, anything .. and if you log in, you'll get emails about when i post! (fancy right, i know😉)

~ the savage🤘