Promote Positivity

I've said it before, and i'll say it again: People who post positive things will get a more positive response. (for the most part.. not always, we all will always have some hate, that's just how life works, we should know that by now). awhile back, i asked my followers on Instagram, Snapchat, and friends on Facebook.. "what is the first thing you noticed about me? (or just first thought).

some of the responses i got were funny, some were sweet, and some just made me feel completely uplifted. (now you don't have to read all of these. or any at all.. but the main meat of this post is below all of these kind words.)

"your skinny and workout?" , "smile bc you beautiful", "you always dressed so cute for dr. hill's class!", "well i haven't met you yet lol but when i saw your smile, it's infectious", "great ass, red hair", " When I first met you down in PCB I thought you were the most beautiful thing I'd ever laid my eyes on. I think what caught my attention most is a tie between your smile and your eyes. They're mesmerizing", "how great your smile is!", "you're beautiful eyes", " You've always had this Aura around you that just explodes with positivity and ambition. You're going to do great things in this life and I'll forever know I had the best prom date ever!", "Damn - this girl HATES ME, but she's gonna learn to love me", "your smile :) walked past you and immediately smiled because it was so contagious." "i thought you were very open, easy to talk to, compassionate, and very straight forward."

"i like your style! actually there's a lot of things about you i like!

""this chick looks like she could kick my ass"

"first thing i noticed about you was your heartwarming smile"

"your idgaf attitude and approchability"

"red hair, great butt" "your smile" "Red hair. It’s a standout obviously, and I love red hair lol." "whenever i was around you, you lit up the room. and everyone knew that, and felt that."

"great taste in music" "this mf has orange hair" "your amazingly perfect winged eyeliner" "haven't met you, but your smile is to die for" "But first time I ever saw you, probably way back in high school, I mostly thought you were just a fun, energetic girl. Obviously noticed the hair color as most people will probably say. But it really does suit you well. Got the fiery attitude lol

Now when I see you I think damnnn that’s one badass chick hahah"

"ive always thought the world of you, even before i really known you" "your makeup and clothes & that you didnt put up with anyones shit" "your strong personality, you know who you respect and who you don't. love that." , "powerful, sassy, & pretty effing badass" "ambition ad drive 100%" "that ginger flow" "how motherfucking beautiful you are"

now the whole point of this post.. is that there are so many things you don't realize about yourself that are amazing that other people think every. single. day. what sucks is that there are so many people who think a lot of positive things about you, but don't share it. a lot of these responses were from people that i don't talk to often anymore.. or that i've met once, some i haven't even met at all.

if everyone just said their positive comments first.. to people that they don't even know.. it would make someone's day.

do you know how many people you walk by a day that probably think you're a beautiful human (resting bitch face and all? .. yea i know how that is, i got it too lol.) or how many people you walk by and you're like "wow that outfit is cute" .. if you just said it. told someone that, i bet it could change their whole day for the better. honestly seeing someone happy when they get those compliments is also an amazing feeling.

i'm not saying you HAVE to do this. or you NEED to do this. but just try it out. the next time if you're even thinking "wow that's a cute dog" .. dog parents love to hear that lol. or even if you just like someones shoes?

when you compliment someone, it makes you feel good too, so give it a try. 💕

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Lets tackle the rest of this week ... after we get in a good nap anyway.

xx

~ the savage🤘